A group of people in a government meeting room wearing shirts that read "Protect Trans Kids" and "Trans right are human rights" smiling at the camera.

He She Ze and We supports Transgender and Nonbinary people by empowering their families, communities, and allies to create life-saving, inclusive environments.

  • We believe that everyone should live in a state that covers transgender health services.
  • We believe that all Virginians should have inclusive policies and legal protections. 
  • We believe that everyone in the state deserves access to life-saving family programming.
  • We believe families deserve knowledgeable caregivers including medical providers, school personnel, and legislators.

He She Ze and We is a 501(c)3 Non-profit that offers weekly educational support meetings for parents, caregivers and adult family members of transgender and gender-diverse children of all ages. These meetings are an opportunity to talk and listen to others going through a similar journey.

HSZ&W meetings are designed for adult family members that would like to learn more about gender identity and how to support their transgender, nonbinary, or gender-diverse loved one. Our facilitators and attendees work together to create a safe and brave environment that is supportive and confidential. We offer both virtual and in person options.

We offer training for businesses, schools, agencies, and community groups that would like to expand their knowledge about gender identity and learn ways to provide a more welcoming, inclusive environment to Transgender and Nonbinary individuals. 


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